4 Steps to Use Fears as Friends

  1. Notice that feeling of fear, disappointment, discouragement, hurt, or anger. It may be: tenseness of muscles, heat, perspiration, scowling, tears, clenched fists, rapid heartbeat, and lack of focus. These are some cues to let you know that fear is present.
  2. In that moment, STOP! Take a deep breath – or ten. This gives the stimulus enough time to be accepted by your rational cortex. Think about your reactive responses in the past to the same or similar experiences. Were you happy with the consequences and the effect on your relationships? Do you want that to happen again?
  3. Wave your magic wand. What is the “best way” for this to turn out, and what actions can you take to achieve that desired outcome? Notice it says “actions you take,” not what someone else should do.
  4. Choose and Act!!

You are a human. You have fears. They show themselves as: anger, defensiveness, frustration, or a need to be right. The reactions are not healthy for you or your relationships.



How to Attract A Woman

How to Attract A Woman

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. However, it will be tough in the “New Normal” COVID-19 world. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

  1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
  2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
  3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Why We Americans Loves Our Veterans

1. If we lost World War II, we would all be speaking German and following idiot Hitler.

2. To date, 1.1 million veterans have lost their lives fighting for our country.

3. Because the United States of American is the best fucking country in the world.

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#veterans

3 Life Lesson’s from the Movie A Dog’s Purpose

1. Have fun, obviously. Whenever possible,

2. Find someone to save, and save them. Lick the ones you love.

3. Don’t get all sad-faced about what happened and scrunchy-faced about what could. Just be here now.

Do you agree?

#adogspurpose

3 Best Halloween Movies for Kids

1. Hocus Pocus – 1993

2. Hotel Transylvania – 2012

3. Monster House – 2006

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#halloweenmoviesforkids

3 Best MLB Baseball Teams of All Time

1. 1998 New York Yankees

2. 1975 Cincinnati Reds

3. 1961 New York Yankees

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#bestbaseballteams

Why Having Friends of the Opposite Sex is Bad For Your Relationship

1. Men lie. They may say that they just want to be friends, but they really want to have sex with you.

2. Women can easily develop feelings for men over time and may eventually develop sexual feeling for their male friends.

3. Add a few happy hours, parties and/or a few wild nights out on the town and there is a good chance that something is going to happen between friends of the opposite sex. Don’t play with fire!

Do you agree?

#friendsoftheoppositesex

How To Change Your Corporate Culture in 3 Steps

1. Develop key principles that your organization will follow and start socializing these principles from the top of the organization.

2. Engage frontline managers and create feedback loops between frontline managers, middle managers and executives.

3. Invest in a robust communication plan that promotes your key principles and feedback loops.

Do you agree?

#corporateculture

Which 3 NFL Teams Have The Richest Fans

1. San Francisco 49ers

2. Seattle Seahawks

3. New York Jets/Giants

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#richestnflfans

How to Tell If Your Boyfriends is Cheating

1. He does not answer his phone or respond to text messages when you are close to him.

2. He gets text messages at odd hours of the night.

3. He hides his phone bill from you and he is always asking you who you are texting or talking to on the phone.

Do you agree?

#cheating